So this is my first new vehicle and I want to take care of it. Mother nature use to wash my last one! What specific products do you all use for a nice wash and polish? Also, with the leather seat upgrade, what is a good product to keep those nice?

Even before I was working for Adam's, I used their products.

Check out these videos for quick how-to's for the wheels/tires and leather.
Car Wax, Car Polish, Auto Detail Supplies - Instructional Videos

For tires and wheel cleaning :: Adam's All Purpose Cleaner with hair brushes.

For Polishing Wheels :: Adam's Metal Polish 1 and 2 followed with Brilliant Spray Glaze and maintained with Detail Spray.

For Tires :: Adams VRT with applicator sponge

For Leather Seats :: Adam's Leather Cleaner with Adam's Leather Conditioner

Congratutlations on your first new vehicle.
I have an 07 Nitro Inferno Red base modelw/Sport appearance package. I use Eagle One's "Wax While you Dry" on my car just to keep a nice slick finish on it. This stuff is all you need on a new vehicle.
I don't care for that phony looking shine on my tires so i use Whestleys
Bleach White on my tires. Makes the tires look like new. There are many wheel cleaners out there that work great, but make sure the wheels have cooled down before you spray any cleaner on them.